We're getting married, and you're invited!

NOV 2ND, 2019

Join us

A destination wedding weekend in the North Carolina mountains.


The Horse Shoe Farm

155 Horse Shoe Farm Dr,
Hendersonville, NC 28791
(877) 393-3034

Guest Accommodations

Accommodations have been reserved for you and your guest for Friday and Saturday night at the Horse Shoe Farm. The entire farm has been reserved for this event.


Weekend Events



Silo Cookhouse at the Horse Shoe Farm



Silo Cookhouse

Welcome Dinner and bonfire (for everyone)

Join us as you arrive!



Silo cookhouse

Brunch Provided


Magnolia manor Patio

Pre-ceremony drinks


Magnolia Manor Lawn



Silo Cookhouse

Cocktail reception and dinner



Silo Cookhouse

Farewell Breakfast


Silo cookhouse


Enjoy yourself

Things to Do

On the Farm

  • VT football game watch party in the Farmhouse
  • Lawn games
  • The property has a river, pond, and hiking trails
  • Schedule a spa treatment at the farm

Off the Farm

YOu asked?


Yes, the cost will be $100 per person, per night.  Please write a check payable to William J Graves* and mail to 1508 Atmore Ln, Virginia Beach, VA 23455. RSVP by September 1st.

Our vision is to have all of our friends and family stay with us for meals and events on the property throughout the weekend.


*as of May 6, 2019

NO! We know traveling and attending our wedding is expensive. Please consider your attendance our gift.

When you arrive, you will check-in at the Silo Cookhouse where you will be assisted to your room.

  • You may check-in starting at 4pm on Friday. If you’re arriving earlier due to flight times, please email Melani at melanig22@gmail.com.
  • Check-out is at 11am Sunday. Don’t forget to turn your clocks back!

No, they are fully stocked houses with linen and towels provided (with the exception of hair dryers).

Wi-Fi is also available throughout the property.

Yes! However, you may want to bring snacks for your rooms.

Alcohol will be provided during both Friday and Saturday evening events. We have a liquor license for the entire weekend — feel free to bring whatever you’d like.

You will be assigned to home that is accessible with few stairs. There will also be a golf cart on the property to assist in navigating you from the various locations.

The ceremony will be held outside, so pack layers to wear! Blankets and hand warmers will be provided.

Link to weather

We want for you to be comfortable! Anything but jeans is acceptable.

  • Women can wear casual dresses, dress pants, skirts, etc. Our suggestion is no high heels as we will be walking across grass and gravel.
  • Men can wear business casual, suits, sweaters, blazers, etc.

Casual and comfortable. Jeans are welcome.

It is an adults-only weekend.

No, we are saving trees (: This is your invitation. Please RSVP on the first page.

  • Asheville Regional Airport – 10 minutes away
  • Greenville-Spartanburg International Airport – 1 hour away
  • Charlotte Douglas International Airport – 1 hour 45 minutes away

Unfortunately, there are very few Uber drives in the Hendersonville area. You can arrange taxis from the Asheville Regional Airport if needed.

If you are driving, there is plenty of free parking at the farm.

How to

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Please use this hashtag when posting photos to social media!

We can't wait to see your photos and memories!


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Ammie Conner Ammie Conner from Arlington wrote on April 11, 2019 at 12:33 am:
The website is gorgeous as are the two of you.
Perfection. Being with you and all your guests for this glorious weekend will be such fun. Can hardly wait.
I love you,Peace,
Janki Gajera Janki Gajera from Denver wrote on February 28, 2019 at 5:37 am:
Congratulations and well wishes!! ???

See you soon!